Funny rule of dating
Everything leading up to the meet up should demonstrate value, build her comfort levels and excitement about meeting you.
Ok, so you’ve been down the gym, had a damn good workout and think she’d appreciate a ripped photo of you with your shirt off. If you haven’t built up enough attraction yet, topless photos will scare her off.
She’ll appreciate those a lot more 🙂 “I had a gr8 time last nite. Read your texts before you send them and don’t use slang. Note: LOL and WTF are ok to a point, but try to avoid these in the first few texts so you can test to see if she likes using them. If she sends you a long message, reply with a long one back. No girl wants to look in the mirror and see a witch staring back, so don’t give her a bad reflection by sending 6 texts back if she only sends 3, or reply to a 20 character sentence with a 200 character text monologue.Make sure you change the subject and once the joke is over, don’t keep going back to it if you’ve got nothing better to say.It doesn’t matter how insanely fun you were when you met her because she’ll forget all those positive emotions as soon as you fail to maintain the vibe.What the above demonstrates is neediness and we discovered neediness to be one of the biggest attraction killers when we interviewed 100 single women. Even if she replies to any of these types of messages she’s only doing it out of politeness at first before she puts a restraining order on you! Your close friends might enjoy the occasional monologue but to a girl you’ve yet to date, they will only make them think you’ve got issues and are needy.
No one wants to have to scroll through dozens of words to get to a point that could have been conveyed in just a few.
But if you want to make her want you and respect you more, never text back too fast. ” This should be done to an extent, because there is a flip side to the coin of taking too long to respond every time…